April 2, 2018 - Yonder
You know that friend of yours that you like so much? The one with all those wonderful, enduring little eccentricities? Well, try traveling with that person. Then you’ll see just how quickly those “wonderful, enduring little eccentricities” become annoying, little quirks. There may be people in your life who you love. People you’ve spent inordinate amounts of time with or without an argument. So, the question is how do you travel with friends and not end up hating each other?
While it might seem like a good idea to travel with acquaintances or people you don’t know very well, we assure you it’s a risk that isn’t worth taking. Leave your adventurous choices for the vacation itself, and keep your choice of travel partners conservative. Also, it’s usually not a good idea to travel with someone with whom you’re in a new romantic relationship with. It’s far more pressure than most new relationships can stand.
What one person may consider affordable, the other may think is astronomical. It’s essential you, and your travel buddy try and align your financial expectations before embarking on your trip. Not only will this help make your overall travel experience smoother, but you may even end up saving a few dollars.
There are two basic types of travelers: those who like to go and see everything and those who want to just relax. These two types can be like oil and water and simply not mix. Other times, they can be like salt and pepper and go great together.
The important thing is communication. If you’re someone who likes to lounge by the poolside and spend your vacation drinking drinks with small umbrellas in them, that’s great. Make sure to let your travel partner know ahead of time, though!
This is also a good opportunity to get outside of your comfort zone a bit and see what the country where you’re traveling has to offer. That’s not to say that you need to be on the go 24/7, but there’s a happy medium somewhere between constant movement and pure relaxation.
There’s nothing wrong with spending some time apart. This is true even for travelers who are romantically involved. People sometimes feel that simply because they’re vacationing together, they must spend every waking moment with one another. You don’t!
If one person wants to visit the best spots for foodies in the world and the other a museum, that’s fine. Do that! If either of you spend too much time adhering to the other’s itinerary, you’ll end up resenting each other and having a bad time.
This one is obvious, but still worth mentioning. When traveling with someone try and be aware of their moods and wishes. Don’t dominate the entire trip with only things that you want to do. Do some stuff that they want to do. And do it whether you want to or not! If you know the person you’re traveling with is, for example, a morning person, consider whether or not you should constantly be pressuring them into staying out late every night. Or, if you’re traveling with someone who has travel anxiety, make sure to be there to support them.
Now that you know how to travel with friends and not end up hating each other, it’s time for you to start planning your next adventure! Make sure to find out your travel style and pick the perfect type of insurance to maximize your vacation peace of mind!